How to feel confident on your first date

September 1st, 2009 No comments »

We all want to make the right first impression on our first dates – after all, aren’t we all aspiring for date number 2 – so feeling confident in your body and your appearance is important.

However for many of you, once you have secured this first date, fear and doubt begins to set in. You begin to question yourself, your appearance and why they like you, and ultimately arrive at your date feeling insecure about the future.

To help you experience the confidence you deserve, below I have listed my top 5 tips to feeling great, so you can approach your date rest assured that you will experience success.

 

1. Be relaxed

It is only natural to feel nervous on a date. It is your first real chance to get to know one another, and of course you want them to like you.

To help control your nerves just take a few deep breaths, and try to pretend that you are with your friends. By doing so you will begin to feel calm and relaxed, and conversation will come more easily.

If you are often prone to nerves though, try thinking of different topics you can talk about prior to going on your date. By practising your answers before you meet, you can feel confident that you won’t make any mistakes in your answers, and will instantly put your date at ease.

Simply pick subjects which you can both easily talk about and have fun!

 

 

First date2. Be confident

Confidence is simply a state of mind; of believing that everything is going to be okay and putting your thoughts into action.

So take a deep breath and say to yourself ‘this date is going to be a success; this date is going to be a success; this date is going to be a success’. With this mantra always on hand to guide you, all this positive thinking will eventually leak into your actions and leave you feeling confident about your date.

 

 

3. Act interested

It is easy to let our nerves get the better of us on a date. But by making sure that you keep the conversation moving; the questions flowing and avoid periods of silence; this banter will eventually begin to feel natural and you will both find yourselves feeling at ease with one another.

Remember, they are probably just as nervous as you, so act interested and the rest will naturally follow.

 

 

4. Be who you want to be

We have all felt self-conscious about our bodies at some point on our dates. From feeling overly aware of the excess lbs around our stomachs and thighs, to feeling uncomfortable in the way our clothes fit; our lack of confidence can often translate into the way we present ourselves on our dates.

To help you slip into your favourite sexy dress with ease and feel great about your body, try taking a natural appetite suppressant such as Proactol™ .

Clinically proven to:

• suppress your appetite
• decrease your food cravings
• reduce your dietary fat intake by 28%

With Proactol™’s support you can lose a steady 1-2lbs a week and go on your date feeling rest assured that you look and feel fantastic.

For more information about Proactol™, and how it can help you to become the person you have always wanted to be, visit Proactol website.

 

 

5. Be Yourself

Last of all, just be yourself. There is no point trying to be someone you’re not. This will only go on to work against you later, and will cause you to make mistakes.

Simply be yourself and remember that your date said yes to the idea of dating the real you, not a fictional character.

So give these tips a try and begin feeling the difference of a happier, more confident you. :)

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Breaking Down Barriers

August 30th, 2009 No comments »

Many of us are not able to keep up the good work for the long haul because we set ourselves unrealistic goals. Remember, planning is just as important as action in reaching your target.

Take a look at the following advice, it will help you be realistic and be prepared. 

 

1. What if I’ve got a slow metabolism?

EVERYONE can boost their metabolism and make it more efficient. To lose weight you simply need to use more calories than you eat and drink each day.

 

2. Willpower gone walkies?

Falling ‘off the wagon’ will be an inevitable part of your journey. The key is not to see your route as a constant battle of mind over matter but a path that, despite the odd twist or turn, always leads in the right direction. Also, taking a supplement like Proactol will help you manage the amount of fat absorbed by your body, even when you have these slip ups.

 

3. The weight keeps creeping back

Keep a food and exercise diary to keep track of what you’re doing and just how far you’ve come. You’ll be able to make necessary adjustments to stay on course to achieve your goals.

 

4. Always wanting to eat?

Emotional eating is just a bad habit for most of us. Break the cycle by stopping and asking yourself ‘why do I want to eat this?’ If the answer is not ‘because I’m hungry’ but ‘because I’m bored’ then put the food down and go and do something else!

 

5. I’d have to eat a low calorie diet all the time!

To lose weight sensibly, and for the long term, you need to cut down your calorie intake and become more active. But a diet with TOO few calories will rob you of essential energy and nutrients. To lose weight, women need between 1400 and 1800 calories a day, men between 1750 and 2250 calories.

 

6. Unless you workout constantly, exercise is just a waste of time!

Research shows that ANY exercise is better than none – even walking for as little as an hour a week can help. Start making small changes and you’ll see a big difference in the long run.

 

7. If you really want to drop the pounds you have to crash diet

Crash diets DO NOT WORK in the long term. Starving your body of essential nutrients puts it into starvation mode, making you hold on to calories for energy. Over time, many crash dieters end up gaining more pounds than they lost originally.

 

8. If I don’t eat breakfast I’ll save on calories

Eating breakfast not only kick starts your brain and your system for the day, it has also been shown that people who eat breakfast tend to eat better as they won’t go for fattening or sugary foods to fight energy slumps later in the day.

 

9. Eating food at night is fattening

It’s not WHEN you eat but WHAT you eat that counts. A calorie is a calorie whether eaten at midday or midnight. Just look at your total calorie count for the day and make a judgement on what to eat in the evening. However, if you eat more during the day when you’re active you are much less likely to go to bed feeling too full!

 

10. To decrease my body fat I need to cut it out of my food completely

Fat is not your enemy – your body NEEDS fat to function. But aim to get your fat content from ‘good’ sources such as avocados, nuts, oily fish and vegetable oils and not from ‘bad’ sources such as cheese, cakes, pastries, butter or biscuits. Proactol can help you lose fat from food before you put it on.

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Boost Your Metabolism – The fat burning work out

August 27th, 2009 1 comment »

Add this 10 minute power-packed routine to your regular workout three times a week to burn more than 100 calories each session. The work out is a mix of slow strength moves and explosive plyometric exercises combining swift motions and jumps to give your metabolism an instant kick whilst building muscle and burning fat in the long term.

 single leg squat

  • Lift right leg off floor, bending knee 90 degrees, and place hands on hips
  • Bend left knee, lowering into a squat example singlelegsquat Boost Your Metabolism   The fat burning work out
  • Hold for 1 count, straighten leg, then repeat
  • Do 1 minute per leg
  • crunch ball toss

  • Lie on back holding a medicine ball (a football will do) with both hands at chest level, knees bent example crunchballtoss Boost Your Metabolism   The fat burning work out
  • Crunch up and toss the ball a few inches above you; freeze in that position until the ball falls back into your hands
  • Slowly return to the start and repeat
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    single arm diagonal clean and press Boost Your Metabolism   The fat burning work out

  • Holding a 5lb dumbbell, in right hand, bend knees 90 ° and lower weight toward left foot example singlearmclean Boost Your Metabolism   The fat burning work out
  • With an explosive lift, stand and swing the weight up to your right shoulder
  • Extend arm overheard; return weight to shoulder
  • Repeat 10 times on each side
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    explosive jump Boost Your Metabolism   The fat burning work out

  • Stand with knees bent 90 ° example explosivejump Boost Your Metabolism   The fat burning work out
  • With arms by sides, bend elbows, bringing fists just below chest
  • Keeping abs and glutes tight, jump as high as you can
  • Land with knees slightly bent
  • Return to start
  • Do 12 times; rest for 30 seconds and repeat
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    metabolic bike Boost Your Metabolism   The fat burning work out

  • Lie on back with knees bent, feet on floor example metabolicbike Boost Your Metabolism   The fat burning work out
  • Place hands lightly behind head
  • Raise upper body and extend legs about 12 inches off floor
  • Bring left elbow and right knee towards each other
  • Continue, alternating sides
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    20 superfoods for weight loss

    August 23rd, 2009 No comments »

    It’s time for a new slim-down mantra: Eat more to weigh less. No joke! The right foods help you drop pounds by revving your calorie burn and curbing cravings. We consulted top experts for the best picks and asked leading chefs for easy, tasty ways to prepare them. Add these eats to your plate today and you’ll be slimmer and healthier in no time!

    weight loss food 20 superfoods for weight loss

    Steak
    Beef has a rep as a diet buster, but eating it may help you peel off pounds. In a study published in The American Journal of Clinical Nutrition, women on a diet that included red meat lost more weight than those eating equal calories but little beef. “The protein in steak helps you retain muscle mass during weight loss,” says study author Manny Noakes, Ph.D. Try to consume local organic beef; it’s healthier for you and the environment.

    Eat more Grill or broil a 4-ounce serving of top round or sirloin; slice thinly to top a salad, or mix with veggies for fajitas.

    Eggs
    Dig in to eggs, yolks and all: They won’t harm your heart, but they can help you trim inches. Women on a low-calorie diet who ate an egg with toast and jelly each morning lost twice as many pounds as those who had a bagel breakfast with the same number of calories but no eggs, a study from Louisiana State University in Baton Rouge reports. “Egg protein is filling, so you eat less later in the day,” says David Grotto, R.D., author of 101 Foods That Could Save Your Life (Bantam).

    Eat more Omelets and scrambles are obvious choices, but if you can’t cook before work, bake a frittata on Sunday; chill it and nuke slices for up to a week. An easy recipe: Vegetable Frittata.

    Kale
    Long sidelined as a lowly garnish, this green belongs center stage on your plate. One raw chopped cup contains 34 calories and about 1.3 grams of fiber, as well as a hearty helping of iron and calcium. But kale’s earthy flavor might take some getting used to. Spinach, another nutrient powerhouse, is a milder-tasting option.

    Eat more Mix chopped raw kale into cooked black beans, says Jennifer Iserloh, founder of Skinny Chef Culinary Ventures, in New York City. Or slice kale into thin strips, sauté it with vegetable broth and top with orange slices. Make it a meal by tossing the mix with quinoa.

    Oats
    “Oatmeal has the highest satiety ranking of any food,” Grotto says. “Unlike many other carbohydrates, oats—even the instant kind—digest slowly, so they have little impact on your blood sugar.” All oats are healthful, but the steel-cut and rolled varieties (which are minimally processed) have up to 5 grams of fiber per serving, making them the most filling choice. Instant oats contain 3 to 4 grams per serving.

    Eat more “Instead of using breadcrumbs, add oats to meat loaf—about 1 cup for a recipe that serves eight,” Iserloh recommends. Or try her recipe for turkey and oatmeal meatballs.

    Lentils
    Lentils are a bona fide belly flattener. “They’re high in protein and soluble fiber, two nutrients that stabilize blood sugar levels,” says Tanya Zuckerbrot, R.D., author of The F-Factor Diet (Putnam Adult). “Eating them helps prevent insulin spikes that cause your body to create excess fat, especially in the abdominal area.”

    Eat more Mix 1/4 cup of the dried berries (from health food stores) with 1/4 cup raisins and 1/4 cup walnuts for a nourishing trail mix. Or for dessert, pour 1/4 cup boiling water into a bowl with 2 tbsp dried berries; let sit 10 minutes. Drain, then spoon over 1/2 cup lowfat vanilla frozen yogurt.

    Wild salmon
    Not only do fish fats keep your heart healthy, but they shrink your waist, too. “Omega-3 fatty acids improve insulin sensitivity—which helps build muscle and decrease belly fat,” Grotto explains. And the more muscle you have, the more calories your body burns. Opt for wild salmon; it may contain fewer pollutants.

    Eat more You don’t need to do much to enhance salmon’s taste, says Sidra Forman, a chef and writer in Washington, D.C. “Simple is best. Season a fillet with salt and pepper, then cook it in a hot pan with 2 tsp oil for 1 to 3 minutes on each side.”

    Apples
    An apple a day can keep weight gain at bay, finds a study from Penn State University at University Park. People who chomped an apple before a pasta meal ate fewer calories overall than those who had a different snack. “Apples are high in fiber—4 to 5 grams each—which makes them filling,” says Susan Kraus, R.D., a clinical dietitian at Hackensack University Medical Center in New Jersey. Plus, the antioxidants in apples may help prevent metabolic syndrome, a condition marked by excess belly fat or an “apple shape.”

    Eat more Apples are the ideal on-the-go low-calorie snack. For a pielike treat, chop up a medium apple and sprinkle with 1/2 tsp allspice and 1/2 tsp cinnamon. Pop in the microwave for 1 1/2 minutes.

    Buckwheat pasta
    Swap plain noodles for this hearty variety; you’ll slip into your skinny jeans in no time. “Buckwheat is high in fiber and, unlike most carbs, contains protein,” Zuckerbrot says. “Those two nutrients make it very satiating, so it’s harder to overeat buckwheat pasta than the regular stuff.”

    Eat more Cook this pasta as you do rice: Simmer it, covered, over low heat. For a light meal, toss cooked buckwheat pasta with broccoli, carrots, mushrooms and onions. Or make buckwheat crepes using our tasty recipe.

    Blueberries
    All berries are good for you, but those with a blue hue are among the best of the bunch. They have the highest antioxidant level of all commonly consumed fruit, according to research from the USDA Agriculture Research Service in Little Rock, Arkansas. They also deliver 3.6 grams of fiber per cup. “Fiber may actually prevent some of the fat you eat from being absorbed because fiber pulls fat through the digestive tract,” Zuckerbrot says.

    Eat more Instead of topping your cereal with fruit, fill your bowl with blueberries, then sprinkle cereal on top and add milk or yogurt, Iserloh recommends.

    Almond butter
    Adding this spread may lower bread’s glycemic index (a measure of a food’s effect on blood sugar). A study from the University of Toronto found that people who ate almonds with white bread didn’t experience the same blood sugar surges as those who ate only the slice. “The higher blood sugar levels rise, the lower they fall; that dip leads to hunger, causing people to overeat,” says study author Cyril Kendall, Ph.D. “Furthermore, blood sugar changes cause the body to make insulin, which can increase abdominal fat.”

    Eat more Try it for a change from peanut butter in sandwiches, or make a veggie dip: Mix 1 tbsp almond butter with 2 tbsp fat-free plain yogurt, Iserloh suggests. Or add a dollop to oatmeal for flavor and protein.

    Pomegranates
    The juice gets all the hype for being healthy, but pomegranate seeds deserve their own spotlight. In addition to being loaded with folate and disease-fighting antioxidants, they’re low in calories and high in fiber, so they satisfy your sweet tooth without blowing your diet, Krieger says.

    Eat more Pop the raw seeds on their own (many grocery stores sell them preshucked) as a snack at your desk. “Use them in salads instead of nuts,” Iserloh says. “They’re especially delicious on raw baby spinach with lemon–poppy seed dressing.” For another take on the seeds, use our easy recipe for sweet and spicy pomegranate salsa.

    Chiles
    One reason to spice up your meals: You’ll crank up your metabolism. “A compound in chiles called capsaicin has a thermogenic effect, meaning it causes the body to burn extra calories for 20 minutes after you eat the chiles,” Zuckerbrot explains. Plus, “you can’t gulp down spicy food,” she adds. “Eating slowly gives your brain time to register that your stomach is full, so you won’t overeat.”

    Eat more Stuff chiles with cooked quinoa and marinara sauce, then roast them. To mellow a chile’s heat, grill it until it’s almost black, peel off charred skin and puree the flesh, Krieger says. Add the puree to pasta sauces for a one-alarm kick. Or stir red pepper flakes into any dish you enjoy.

    Yogurt
    Dietitians often refer to plain yogurt as the perfect food, and for good reason: With its trifecta of carbs, protein and fat, it can stave off hunger by keeping blood sugar levels steady. In a study from the University of Tennessee at Knoxville, people on a low-calorie diet that included yogurt lost 61 percent more fat overall and 81 percent more belly fat than those on a similar plan but without yogurt.

    Eat more “Use lowfat plain yogurt instead of mayonnaise in chicken or potato salad, or top a baked potato with a bit of yogurt and a squeeze of lemon juice,” Krieger says. You’ll save 4.7 grams of fat per tablespoon. Look for Greek yogurt, which has more protein than other versions.

    Quinoa
    Curbing hunger is as easy as piling your plate with this whole grain. It packs both fiber (2.6 grams per 1/2 cup) and protein, a stellar nutrient combo that can keep you satisfied for hours, Krieger says.

    Eat more Serve quinoa instead of rice with stir-fries, or try Krieger’s take on a scrumptious hot breakfast: Cook 1/2 cup quinoa in 2/3 cup water and 1/3 cup orange juice for 15 minutes. Top with 1 tbsp each of raisins and chopped walnuts.

    Sardines
    These tiny fish are the unsung stars of the sea. They are high in protein and loaded with omega-3s, which also help the body maintain muscle. And they’re low in mercury and high in calcium, making them a smart fish pick for pregnant women. If the flavor doesn’t appeal to you, “soak them in milk for an hour; it will remove any trace of fishiness,” Iserloh says.

    Eat more “Use sardines in recipes you like that call for anchovies, including Caesar salad and stuffing,” Iserloh says. Or make a sardine melt: Toss whole sardines with chopped onions, fresh herbs and diced bell peppers. Put the mixture on top of a slice of pumpernickel or rye bread, cover with a slice of cheddar and broil.

    Tarragon
    You can use this herb, a staple in French cooking, in place of salt in marinades and salad dressings. Excess sodium causes your body to retain water, so using less salt can keep bloating at bay. Plus, tarragon lends a sweet, licoricelike flavor to bland foods. (Use the French version of the herb when possible; it’s sweeter than other varieties.)

    Eat more Rub 2 tbsp dried tarragon on chicken before baking or grilling. Or make a tasty dip by mixing 1 tsp chopped fresh tarragon into 4 oz lowfat plain yogurt and 1 tsp Dijon mustard, recommends Jacquelyn Buchanan, director of culinary development at Laura Chenel’s Chèvre, a fromagerie in Sonoma, California.

    Parmesan
    Drop that rubbery lowfat cheese and pick up the real stuff. Women who had one serving of whole milk or cheese daily were less likely to gain weight over time, a study in The American Journal of Clinical Nutrition finds. Lowfat-dairy fans didn’t experience the same benefit. Whole dairy may have more conjugated linoleic acid, which might help your body burn fat. “Parmesan is so flavorful, it’s easy to stick to one serving,” Buchanan says.

    Eat more “Grate Parmesan over roasted vegetables,” Buchanan offers. Or snack on a 1-ounce portion with an apple or a pear.

    Avocado
    Don’t let the fat content of an avocado (29 grams) scare you—that’s what makes it a top weight loss food, Kraus says. “The heart-healthy monounsaturated fat it contains increases satiety,” she says. And it’s terrific summer party food.

    Eat more Add avocado to your sandwich instead of mayo for a creamy texture and a shot of flavor. Avocados do contain a lot of calories, so it’s best to watch your portions. One easy way to do it: Try Wholly Guacamole’s 100-calorie fresh guacamole packs ($3; grocery stores or WhollyGuac.com). They’re easy to pack in your lunch and pair with chopped vegetables.

    Olive oil
    Like avocados, olive oil has healthy fat that increases satiety, taming your appetite. But that’s hardly its only slimming feature. “Research shows it has anti-inflammatory properties,” Kraus says. Chronic inflammation in the body is linked to metabolic syndrome.

    Eat more Drizzle your salad with olive oil and you’ll increase the antioxidant power of your veggies, a study published in the British Journal of Nutrition notes. Or toss pasta with a few teaspoons of olive oil, fresh basil and sautéed garlic, Kraus suggests. Add this oil to your summer menus for a flatter tummy by fall.

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    The “Pistachio Principle” of Weight Loss

    August 22nd, 2009 No comments »

    James Painter, PhD, RD, has come up with a new, non-dieting approach to weight loss that he calls the “Pistachio Principle.” He says his experiments have shown that people can consume fewer calories without consciously restricting themselves, and yet finish a meal feeling as satisfied and full as does the average American who consumes more calories.

    Long-term failure of diets

    As justification for the new direction he is taking, he cites the fact that all forms of dieting, including the Pritikin Principle®, the Atkins Diet®, and Weight Watchers®, have yielded poor long-term weight-loss results, and he points to rebound eating in response to feelings of deprivation as one probable reason for their failure.

    To address weight issues from another direction, Painter, a professor and chair of the School of Family and Consumer Sciences at Eastern Illinois University, advocates a behavioral and environmental approach that he’s developed.

    How, you ask, can you have calorie reduction without a feeling of restriction or deprivation?

    Why increase those feelings of deprivation?

    According to Painter, Americans over the past decades haven’t consciously set out to increase the amounts of fat, carbohydrates, or calories they eat–there’s no grand plan afoot to gain lots of weight. And so, he questions why we would do an about-face and consciously restrict extra calories, thereby igniting feelings of deprivation.

    In one of Painter’s behavioral studies, subjects self-selected helpings of either shelled pistachios or those still in their shells. Since pistachios in shells take more effort and time to eat, the actual calories these subjects consumed were 50 percent less than those eaten by the shelled-nut group. And the upshot was, both groups felt equally satisfied with their portions, and equally full.

    How you might put the Pistachio Principle to the test:

    • Instead of drinking juices, where calories are quickly consumed, eat fresh fruit instead–a whole orange or tangerine, for example, eaten slowly and section-by-section after peeling it, takes longer to consume and has fiber you don’t find in the juice.
    • If you have a hankering for peanuts, go with shelled vs. unshelled.
    • Try cutting up fresh fruits and veggies into much smaller pieces than you normally would and see how slowly you can eat them.

    The bottom line is that it takes your brain 20 minutes to get the signal that you’re full. The Pistachio Principle may slow your eating down to the point where you can feel that the stomach is full before you tuck into that second helping. 

    What do you think about the “Pistachio Principle”?

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    Zone diet and weight loss

    August 21st, 2009 No comments »

    The Zone Diet created by Barry Sears, PhD. Zone Diet contains 40% carbohydrate, 30% protein and 30% fat and is also known as the 40-30-30 plan. It works on the premise that 100,000 years ago, we were meat eaters, and our metabolism is designed to handle the demands of a meat diet.

     The food industry has evolved, and the introduction of more days of carbohydrate diet for us, which leads to an unbalanced metabolism to burn fat. Cause us to obesity, also relate too many of the grain and the starch diet. Diet of the area requires a return to the food of our ancestors where meat, fruits and vegetables diet.

    zone diet

     Zone diet recommends that you have the correct proportion of carbohydrates and protein and fat to control the insulin in the blood. Too much insulin hormone can increase the establishment of fat and inflammation in itself (the conditions of obesity, type 2 diabetes and cardiovascular disease, etc…) Dr. Sears said the province, through the use of diet; you really optimize your metabolism of body. Regulation of blood sugar, results in excess burning body fat.

    Soybeans are a good source of proteins, it contains large amount of proteins which is essential for the body. It is a best food of weight loss diet. Instead of having high content of meat, one should take Soy Zone Protein diet. Soy protein, simply use a diet based on soy protein instead of meat meals. This is a statistic that people with high proportion of food gain weight a little while later.

    Your body can not live without carbohydrates, which are outside the zone during feeding. Your body needs carbohydrates, to eventually give in. And when to give, because your body is not accustomed to all those calories, rich in carbohydrates, which cause more weight than before you started the food! Zone diet weight loss seems to work well for some people. Divert a little to include some essential nutrients to your body healthy.

    Although no one is stick to one food group but it is advisable to avoid food with high fat and carbohydrates such as burgers, soft drinks and sometimes hard drinks too. The best food group includes fruits and vegetables cooked in olive oil and almonds oil. The Zone Diet claims to be a drug for good and maintained health and weight loss. Zone diet is given as a test for some people and then kept in the notice that how the body react after four hours. Zone Diet contains low-fat protein with fruits and vegetables.

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